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Abandonment and Attachment Wounds
Insights into abandonment wounds, attachment trauma, fear of rejection, and how early emotional wounds shape adult relationships and self-esteem.


How To Know If You Have An Abandonment Wound
An abandonment wound often forms in childhood when emotional needs weren’t met and can show up later as fear of loss, panic in relationships, people-pleasing, or choosing unavailable partners. This article helps you recognize the signs and explains how real healing happens.

Valerie Alexander
5 min read


Why You Keep Repeating Toxic Relationships: Five Core Patterns
If you feel stuck in toxic relationship cycles, the toxic patterns can be used to free yourself and get unstuck. This posts lists five dynamics and how each can be used to free yourself.

Valerie Alexander
6 min read


Why Inner Child Wounds Don't Heal In Therapy & What To Do About It
Why you can spend years in therapy and still not heal an inner child wound. Reasons and details for each reason are provided.

Valerie Alexander
4 min read
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